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Heartbreak and Searching for Happiness

Hey y’all. Some of y’all may have read that things haven’t been going too great this week. Unfortunately, things just got worse. Yesterday, my boyfriend of three years broke up with me. Honestly, I don’t really know what to think. I figured I show y’all so many good things that sometimes y’all need to know there’s bad too. Plus, I figured I would share with y’all, as time goes on, how I managed my broken heart.

I know some people may think it’s stupid to be so hurt about this, but he was my first boyfriend and we had known each other for four years…I was really invested in “us”. I’m not going to get into the details because it’s more personal than I feel like sharing and I’ve cried enough already.

This is probably one of the hardest things I’ve had to deal with this year and this year has been a complete roller coaster full of good times and really bad times…I’m not really sure what to do and how to pick myself up right now. Any tips would be nice. ❀

I was going to take a break from my blog, but I decided not to because I need some happiness right now and y’all do an amazing job at making me happy. Plus, I still have a reading goal to reach by the end of this month.

It’s all very hard for me and very, very painful but I’ll figure something out. I have today and tomorrow off so I need to get out of the house and figure something out. Also, my dad is gonna stop by so I can see him. πŸ™‚ Another thing too, I’ve still got something else exciting planned and in the works but I want it to be a surprise and I want to make sure it actually happens. So, that’s my light in this dark time. And if you’re wondering it has nothing to do with books or blogging or writing….that’s not the surprise haha.

I’m also going to be buying an iPad so I can do some art when I’m bored or stuck at the airport. I thought it would be nice and I figured that I could possibly start selling my art too. πŸ™‚ We’ll see how it all goes..I got paid yesterday so I’m ready to spoil myself with a little retail therapy haha.

This is all crappy, but I know that God only does things that are for my greater good. I may not understand it and I may never understand it, but I trust Him…even if it’s so hard sometimes.

10 thoughts on “Heartbreak and Searching for Happiness

  1. Aw, sorry about the BF situation. *hugs*

    It’s not stupid to feel hurt about it. I’d say it’s normal. You are entitled to your feelings and shouldn’t feel bad about feeling bad. ❀

    Reading might be a good distraction tho πŸ™‚
    Also hanging out with friends. After my last break up in 2016 i took up hiking. That was something i always wanted to try, but my ex wasn't really into it, so i finally made the decision to join a walking group. It was kinda funny, cuz I didn't realize 95% of the group was over 50 years old. So I went by myself, and was a bit uncomfortable, but it turned out pretty fun at the end.

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    1. That actually sounds really fun! I’ll have to look into that πŸ™‚ Thank you so much ❀ It's definitely not easy, but there's not much I can do about it. I'll definitely look into hiking groups because that sounds cool πŸ˜€ ❀

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  2. I’m so sorry to hear about the breakup I know it hurts now but eventually things will start to look up and you will find yourself happy again it will just take time. Just take some time and look after you. Hang out with some friends maybe try something new you’ve been wanting to try to help take your mind off things.

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  3. Why would we think this is stupid Abigail??? This is your life and your feelings. So if it hurts it hurts and nobody should say it’s stupid. I don’t have a magic potion to cure it. I just know from many years that life has its up and its down. And after a down there is always a up even if in the meantime it sucks! So cry if you feel like it, laugh if you want but above all else do things that make you feel good ❀

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    1. Thank you so much! I really appreciate the love ❀ I guess I was worried people would think it's stupid because I'm young and it shouldn't be that important. I appreciate your comment a lot though πŸ™‚ ❀

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  4. Hello Abigail. I am so sorry to hear about your break-up. I suggest you take the issue to God in prayer. I also want to remind you of God’s love. God is our first love and he loves us more than anyone on earth could possibly do. Trust him during this time and let him work his miracles as usual.

    Having said that, I would leave you with a piece of scripture that speaks directly to your situation
    Psalm 147: 3 “He heals the brokenhearted
    and bandages their wounds.

    I pray you find joy soon. Peace be with you. Have a blessed day πŸ™‚

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